Q. Every time I ask my daughter’s mother for extra time with my daughter, she drags her feet, probably because we don’t get along so well, but my daughter always seems to either have homework or cheerleading practice or a soccer game. I’m just an “every-other-weekend dad.” I’ve tried going back to court. It helped a little, but my daughter is 9 now! What’s good ex-etiquette? A. I often hear from parents who would like to have more time with their kids and get resistance from the other parent. Court can help, but it’s expensive and time-consuming, and it often makes a bad relationship with the …