The share of New Jersey residents who want to escape to another state is at an all-time high of 36 percent, the latest Rutgers-Eagleton poll tells us. I’m tempted to buy them a bus ticket to leave because we have too much traffic already, and I don’t like whiners. My higher self tells me that’s just a defensive reflex, but I’m sticking with it. When I go to Cape Cod in the summer, I make a point to wear my New Jersey T-shirts, purchased in bulk on Turnpike rest stops, just to stick it to the Mass Holes who turn up their noses at us. When Trenton had a contest in 2005 to find a state motto, my …