Dear Anna, Why is the queer lady dating pool so small? I downloaded, like, 10 apps and still keep getting matched with my ex, whose face I never want to see again! — Gah Dear Gah, I feel you. They say there’s plenty of fish in the sea, but when you’re queer it can feel more like a puddle. Even if you leave town, you still might wind up dating your ex’s exes, or her friends, or her roommate who performed long-distance reiki on your cat. (True stories, all.) An ex of mine lamented for years (I stopped counting after four) that even after I moved across the country, she was still dating people I …