According to NY Daily News reporter Richard Johnson, the couple would prefer to follow the private, secret route this time around when it comes to tying the knot. Jennifer Lopez and actor, Ben Affleck nearly got married 20 years ago but postponed the wedding four days before the ceremony, blaming “excessive media attention.” “So this time they’ll try for secrecy, if they are smart, I’ve heard.” “The big hurdle was their kids, but they seemed to have conquered that hill.” Lopez told People magazine recently; “Before, we kind of put [our relationship] out there. We were naïve and it got a little…